💗Overcoming Birth Trauma: A Journey to Healing
- Shannon Covart
- Jun 15, 2025
- 3 min read
Updated: Nov 6, 2025
Your first birth wrecked you. You still think about it in the shower. You flinch when you hear certain words—“induction,” “pushing,” “failure to progress.” You smile and nod when people say, “at least the baby’s healthy,” but inside, you feel like you barely survived.
If you’re pregnant again and that old fear is rising in your throat, you’re not broken. You’re traumatized. And you’re not alone.
💔 What Birth Trauma Actually Is
Birth trauma doesn’t always look like blood and screaming. Sometimes it’s:
Feeling unheard or dismissed
Being rushed, cut, or forced into something without consent
The moment the room went quiet, and you didn’t know why
Being told to “calm down” when you were just trying to survive
Even if you had a “successful” birth on paper, you can still carry trauma in your body, in your nervous system, and in your dreams.
🌀 How Hypnobirthing Rewires Your Fear Response
Hypnobirthing isn’t about pretending everything will be okay. It’s about learning how to respond differently when things get hard.
Using hypnosis:
We release the frozen fear from your body.
We re-train your brain to feel safe again.
We build new neural pathways that say, “I can trust myself this time.”
It’s not about controlling your birth. It’s about reclaiming your power, no matter what happens.
🌿 Gentle Steps to Start Healing
You don’t have to dive into the deep end today. Here’s where to start:
Name what happened. Say it out loud. Write it down. Witness it.
Breathe low into your belly. When fear rises, drop your breath down.
Get support. Hypnobirthing gives you tools and space to heal, not just prep.
🌈 Understanding Your Emotions
It's essential to acknowledge your feelings. Birth can be a deeply emotional experience. It's okay to feel scared or anxious. Recognizing these emotions is the first step toward healing.
The Importance of Community
Connecting with others who have experienced similar feelings can be incredibly healing. Look for local support groups or online communities. Sharing your story can lighten your emotional load.
Seeking Professional Help
Sometimes, talking to a professional can provide the support you need. Therapists or counselors specializing in birth trauma can offer guidance and coping strategies.
💫 Final Note
If you’re terrified of giving birth again, don’t ignore it. That fear is not weakness. It’s a call to be held, supported, and seen. Let’s answer that call.
💛 Want a safe way to begin healing? Book a complimentary clarity call to talk it through—no pressure, just peace. 👉 Book a Call
Embracing Your Journey
Remember, healing takes time. Be patient with yourself. Each step you take is a step toward reclaiming your power and preparing for a positive birth experience.
Finding Your Inner Strength
As you navigate this journey, remind yourself of your strength. You have the ability to overcome your fears and embrace the beauty of bringing new life into the world.
The Path Ahead
Your path may be challenging, but it is also filled with hope. Embrace the journey, and know that you are not alone. Together, we can work toward a brighter, more empowered birth experience.
Moving Forward with Confidence
As you prepare for your next birth, focus on building confidence. Trust in your body and your ability to navigate this experience. You are stronger than you know.
Conclusion
In conclusion, healing from birth trauma is a journey. It requires time, support, and self-compassion. By taking gentle steps and seeking help, you can move toward a more positive and empowered birth experience. Remember, you are not alone on this path. Together, we can create a supportive community that fosters healing and growth.


